Monday, June 30, 2008
Update...
Even though I had surgery on my left hand the pain was more in my right hand. I have had to compensate it so I wouldn't hurt my other hand. One of my friends told me I was crazy to get it done so quickly after the first but I thought it would be no big deal. Wrong.
The pain would keep me up at night & sometimes I couldn't even think of putting something into either hand. The pain killers that the Dr gave me didn't work so I ended up using Schane's Tylenol with Codeine that she received when she got her tonsils out. That worked great! And there's a refill!
I'm still not sleeping very well but I'm not taking the medicine. I don't want to get addicted you know. Deb is going to help me get the house in order for Joan's return next week. Even pushing a vacuum around for 5 mins can set off an extremely bad pain attack.
Deb has signed us both up for the last cake class. I told her I don't know how I'm going to make it through but she says that she will help me. The title is called Fondant & Gum Paste. After this class we should know it all. Ya right. My hand is hurting just thinking about taking this class. It starts next Thursday. I might need to go drugged to my class that way I won't be complaining. Maybe I better call in that refill too......
The Circus
Shopping...UGH
Monday, June 23, 2008
Happy & Grumpy
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Sunday Laughs
One thing I will mention happened to me this afternoon. Tim, Schane' & I went to Wal Mart & walked around for about 30 mins before Tim realized that my zipper was down on my pants. I was like you're just now noticing? He said, well Mims, it's not something that I would notice right off. So that's just only a sliver of the laughs that has happened to me today.
Tonight we ate at Applebee's. Deb, Matt, Abbey, Schane, Tim, & me. Right from the start we had another discussion about manners, & then Deb tells me that I tend to me snooty with the waitresses so then I had to apoligize. After the last few days I almost feel like keeping my mouth closed. Maybe that would work, or not. It sure doesn't work for my daughter when I tell her to keep her mouth closed.
Tim tends to spoil Schane', as most of you know. So Schane' wanted an oreo shake, Tim got her one. That meant that Deb had to get Matt & Abbey one too, not really but she was being nice so they didn't feel left out. We all got dessert with our meal because it came with it. Are you getting the picture yet? Three kids with milk shakes & dessert? No need to say more.
Tomorrow is my hand surgery. Tim is spending the night because we have to be at the surgical centre by 6:30 & the surgery is at 8. At 2:30 is Schane's dentist appt & 6:00 is cheerleading. Another fun filled day at the homefront.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Manners
After we got popcorn & drinks, Deb asked me if I wanted a napkin for the popcorn. I said no, that's what shorts are for. She looked at me & couldn't believe it. She said what, you miss manners? I'm like I know, I know. So then we got to talking about manners. She thinks I'm a little psychotic when it comes to the dinner table. When it comes to dinnertime I might go overboard but I thank my upbringing for that. I don't like anyone on the telephone, I won't even answer mine, I like to pray & hold hands before hand, & I don't like elbows on the table. In fact, I have taught Schane' the elbow song that my parents used to sing to us if we had our elbows on the table while we ate. Schane' in turn has taught Deb's kids this song & now they sing it at the table. I think it's hilarious & a great experience in teaching manners.
Deb says she is afraid when she eats dinner at my house. She thinks that I am going to correct her because she might do something wrong. Yes, I have no right correcting other friends kids, & I have to be careful of that because I have made some people mad, but Matt & Abbey are family & if Deb had a problem she would say something. I do have to tell you that she's not totally serious about being afraid, I mean she's getting a free meal, right?
So I ask all of you, what kind of manners do you have? Do you correct your friends kids? Do you go overboard at the dinner table to make it a nice family time with no interruptions? I remember for the most part that dinner was at 6, we always ate together, & we didn't answer the phone. Looking back I know family time & manners were being instilled into us even if we didn't like what we were having for dinner. What a great thing to pass on to our family from past generations.
Friday, June 20, 2008
Record High
I decided yesterday that I would take Schane' to a different water park today. It will be the last time I would be able to take her due to my surgery on Monday. We spent 4hrs playing, playing, & more playing.
The only thing different this morning than usual is I used a lotion sunscreen instead of the spray, which I love. When I got home & looked at myself in the mirror I was maaaaad! I couldn't believe I was so burned. I hadn't reapplied when I went before to the water park so why now?
After me taking a shower I took Schane' to her swimming lesson, even though she didn't want to go, & met up with friends there. While driving to Sonic for dinner, Schane' was talking to Tim. She then handed me the phone & he said why are you two out in this heat? I said Schane' had her swimming lesson & we were headed to dinner. He then told me that it was 114 outside, a record so far this year. When I got to Sonic I asked my friend what her temp gage for outside read, it said that it was 117 outside! No wonder I'm burned! No stinkin sunscreen is going to keep you from burning with that kind of heat, especially when you are in the water.
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So now it is almost 11 & I am very tired. My body feels a little warm but not to bad. Thankfully we can sleep in tomorrow. Overall it was a great day. Schane' tried new slides that she hadn't been on before & was scared going down but once we got out she would yell that was great, let's go again. I hope this adventure today will be enough to hold her for a few weeks because she has no choice, mom won't be able to go swimming!
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Cleanin' The Car
Are you Mexican?
I have been telling this story to my friends & it will probably be one of the funniest stories that will be retold til the day I die.
Swimming...Again
At one point I am sitting on the edge of the pool & Nicole yells at me saying here comes am/pm. Again? Are they following me or am I following them? Of course Schane's friends spot me first because I am close to the entrance so I take them over to where she is and then the screaming & excitement started.
The picture with them all in the pool is Kiley, Abbey, Alayiah (in the back right), & then Schane'. The one with them standing is Kiley & Alayiah with Schane'. Alayiah & Schane' were in the same class. She really bugged me a lot when I volunteered. She didn't listen really well & was always out of her seat, plus she talked a lot. Not the best influence for Schane' in class but we dealt with it.
Schane' asked Alayiah for her phone number & she said all you have to do is press #2. Alrighty then! I guess she has the speed dial down don't you think? I had to explain to her that everybody's phone is different & we can't just push #2 and call you. Schane' was like, "Don't you even know your phone number"? No she doesn't. I hope nothing bad ever happens to her. In a way I was thankful that she didn't.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Happy Father's Day Daddy!
Daddy helped me put up this big flower net above my bed. I really LOVE it. Do you love it? A friend gave it to me, she had it in her bedroom & was going to give it away, so she gave it to me! We also rearranged my bed
For lunch we headed of to Deb's. They had a big water slide that all of us kids used. Mom went on too but she ended up being to big.
I don't have any pictures because mom forgot the camera, she wasn't very happy about this either. It drives dad & I crazy that she takes so many pictures. I have to go. I hope you liked my story.
Happy Father's Day to all you dad's out there!
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Kung Fu Panda
Nicole called me up & wanted to know if we wanted to go see the movie & catch some dinner. I said I can't do both but she said don't worry about it. She ended up treating us the whole night. The picture on the right are her two boys, she too is a single parent. Douglas is in front, he's going into the fourth grade, & Phillip is in the back, he is going into the fifth grade.
They saw The Incredible Hulk last night & highly recommend it. I'm not sure if we're going to that. Even the tv show gave me nightmares, but I still watched it. If you haven't seen the new Indiana Jones movie then I would wait. I wasn't to impressed, though my Pastor had great reviews of it. I would have left it at 3, those I liked. But then no movie director ever listens to me. Why is that? I see enough of them.
Tinkerbell
Charlie's Angels
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Busy On Wednesday
That was our busy day yesterday. Today we chilled out at home not doing a whole lot. We did manage to straighten our room up so that nothing is on the floor anymore. Next we have to tackle our closet, that will definitely be a chore! Tonight we have Abbey spending the night & then Matt will come over tomorrow morning. Their grandma usually watches them but she is having company stay with her for awhile so I said that I can watch them. Until next time.....
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Blessed & Spoiled
Most of you know that I am very blessed with the situation that I am in. I couldn't have asked for a better friend to live with, not fight with, & who loves & helps out in any way with my daughter. Her name is Joan. Right now she is on vacation & will be back in a month & then gone again, maybe. Her plans continuously change. So while she is gone, I am holding down the fort. The only thing I can't take care of is the yard. I can, but it would be hard. My gracious neighbors who have 6 kids have volunteerd their kids to help me out. Today, Zach came over to mow the lawn. Then he brought the edger. Before I had my hand surgery the lawn wasn't bad, but since then it grew out of control. Monday I get my left hand done & then I really will be out of service. Next up is the weeds. Ya, they really are out of control. Thank goodness I've got lots & lots of kids around & some very generous neighbors to lend a helping hand.
We are off the to go fly a kite, hopefully. We haven't been having strong enough winds lately but we are going to try. Then we are going to the neighbors to play store. Schane' needs help working with money & since my neighbor, Nicol, homeschools her kids she thought it would be great to involve Schane'. Then we are headed to a pool party. I help with the jr. high from church & during the summer they have pool party's. It's going to be another busy, fun filled day!
Monday, June 9, 2008
A Compliment
While we were eating, I got to thinking why we were so quiet. No 8 yr old is ever quiet. Then again, why am I not talking to my 8 yr old. It was kind of bugging me in an odd way. So I started making funny faces, then we started talking silly, and so on. Once in awhile I would look around at other people but mainly we were just having fun. Then we had a nice elderly lady come over to us & tell us how refreshing it is to see people having fun & laughing. She asked me if I was her mom, I said yes. She said she had been observing us & was just so delighted to see a great relationship between two people. Then she asked me again, Is this really your daughter? Yes, really she is my daughter. The look on her face was priceless. She was astounded by the great relationship that we have & wanted to make sure I knew how blessed we both were.
Is that not awesome or what! That gave me such a high. Why are we not all like that? Why can we receive compliments but not give them?Are we so clammed up in our own lives that we can't see the joy around us & say something? I'm not one to talk either. I don't give out many compliments but after today I am making it a goal to be more noticeable of my surroundings & say something. So, to that nice elderly lady who just happened to lift my spirits & make my blog, I thank you.
A Thought 2 Reality
On Saturday I took Schane' to one of the water parks called Waterworld. I told her we weren't going to stay very long, just a couple of hrs. We went in the wave pool together & then she wanted to go on what she calls "the white slides". Last year we always got a tube & went down together, this year she surprised me by saying she wanted to go down alone. What?! Are you sure? You never went down by yourself before. She said she did last year, but I don't remember. According to her, I don't remember a lot! So she went in her own tube & I went in mine. The line was horrendous, we waited & waited to get to the top.
After that we did other things & then it was time to go back to the wave pool. By this time I was cold. The water was cold, the air was cold, I did not feel like being there anymore. I told Schane' that she could go in the wave pool by herself while I stand towards the back. Once again she did it by herself. I felt like we were both taking baby steps. At one point I lost site of her but then all of a sudden she pops up out of the water with her pink goggles on & a huge smile. I was very proud of her. I told her that she really needed someone to play with, especially when mom is whiny & cold. Her response was "well if you would just move around you wouldn't be so cold". That's a child for ya.
So that brings me to my title, A Thought 2 Reality. I decided since I am getting surgery done next Monday on my left hand that I had better take Schane' a few more times so she won't complain to much about not going, wishful thinking I know. We decided to go when the park opened up. When we got there there was a HUGE line. I'm thinking no way, Monday morning & there is this big of a line? Schane' said maybe the schools are on an outing, uh Schane' school is out for everybody. We finally realize that it is the summer rec program from our city, whi
So there we are in the wave pool once again when Schane' yells out "there's Kiley"! Sure enough. I couldn't believe it. Schane' had someone to play with!! Not that I don't love my child, but everyone knows that we all need a break. Especially me, since my child is with me 24-7. Kiley just happens to be a great friend from Schane's old school. I was able to sit in the background while Kiley & Schane' hit the wave pool together. It was a great thumbs up day!
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Narnia Exhibit
On Friday Schane' & I went to the Narnia Exhibit at the Science Centre. It was "member's only" day. I only bought our member passes a couple of months ago so I wanted to experience what it would be like for member's only. For the most part it was great. There were no crowds & you could read everything without people surrounding & crowding you. Schane' took off ahead of me because I took to long to read, sounds like experiencing a museum with dad, and then she would eventually come back to me & tell
The Science Centre set it up perfectly. We weren't allowed to take pictures inside of course so the ones that I do have are from the entrance. The first room talks about the movies & has a little set up & then someone directs you into "The Wardrobe". The windows are covered & you can hear sounds of rain, then someone opens the door of the wardrobe & you walk through all the coats, & then snow is falling on you when you enter the magical world of Narnia. There are props from both movies, trivia questio
I thought the whole thing was well done & very well put together. We will probably go back & walk through it again, though I won't take as much time as I did the first time. So, if the Narnia Exhibit happens to hit your town I highly recommend it,